5 Tips To Keep A Marriage Exciting

Marriage is very interesting, make arrangements, plan for your future life together. But after the honeymoon is over, real life begins.  

And while you may have the most beautiful wedding, even the most loyal partner that is sure to find a style of married life is at times, well let's say, less attractive. 

I mean let's face it, you have to love someone, but spend the whole day with the same people make to many routine activities, that if you are not careful can draw on your relationship and make you both feel satisfied with what is otherwise a relationship both very loving.

Consequently, it is very important that couples do not just sit back in the belief that marriage will remain attractive only on its own momentum. Instead, it is important that couples take some basic steps to infuse their relationship with a little excitement.

The First. Have independent interest.

You can not have something interesting to say if you spend every waking moment doing and experiencing the same thing. Have independent interests is not a sign of a weak marriage, as some newlyweds believe, but rather a sign of strength. Have independent interests means that you have something unique to bring the conversation, make sure that you both always have something interesting, and yes interesting, to say to each other. 

Second. Spontaneous event.

While you're on a date, event planning spontaneous seemed rather innate. But, as we grow comfortable in our relationship with obligations and more hectic lives, we have a tendency to rely on the strength of our relationship and thus failed to keep things spontaneous. So to mix things; plan an afternoon or evening event that is completely new. Try that show your partner have been dying to see, or visit that new restaurant that just opened. 

Third. Never threaten separation.

It is less a rule to keep things interesting, and more one to keep them healthy. A relationship can only grow and remain attractive if both parties are confident in their commitment to one another. As a result, make rules between you and your partner that you never threaten separation or divorce. Build an understanding that if you threaten separation, you should head out the door to go back to the top. It is a hard rule, but one that needs imposition if your relationship is to survive the ups and downs that are part of every wedding. 

Fourth. Weekend trip.

One powerful way to inject some romance in your marriage is to take a vacation with just the two of you. But with the rigors of life and cost of travel, full-blown vacation can be difficult to justify. So, instead opting for one night in a local. Plan a dinner and an evening out, and cap it off with a night in a hotel. This burden is not much considering the excitement that trip, no matter how small, can bring to the relationship. 

Fifth. Spice up your bedroom.

The final tip to bring excitement into any relationship to spice things up in the bedroom. Your sex life has a strong correlation with the strength of your relationship and satisfaction. So try exploring a new position or even a sexual fantasy or adult toy with your spouse, and thus share something intimate and bring some excitement in your marriage.